What was so interesting about yesterday?
Menarik itu satu persoalan subjektif, tapi semalam mmg perbincangan yg berlaku between Aini and me menarik :)
Tanggungjawab seseorang berbeza-beza mengikut keadaan. Pada yang sudah berkahwin, tanggungjawab lebih memberat kepada menjaga rumah tangga. Pada yang belum, kerja, your real family, your social life are some of the things that have become your priorities.
As yesterday, Aini and I had this discussion about pursuing Master. I'm suggesting that for those who are always hooked up with tight schedule, Msc is always a better option instead of MBA. Lagipun yuran pengajian for Msc is far away lower than MBA, 3.6K vs 18500K. And about times and feelings, yes, sometimes you get tension when it comes to assignments, projects and presentations due dates, as addition to whatever hectics office job schedule that you have now.
Aini had raised her point of view that staying and becoming a wife and mother to look up for her family, did give her satisfaction and happiness. And yeah, i'm totally agree with that. For a wife, family is everything. Everytime your child get sick, you will feel so fretful upside down, anxious and depressed to get your child recover again, and you will be only calm again after he manage to recover. Same goes for husband. Banyak tanggungjawab dan peranan isteri ni dalam memelihara rumah tangga.
And in Islam, perkahwinan itu adalah satu rahmat. Everything that we do dlm menjalankan tanggungjawab kita as isteri, ibu dan sebagainya dalam memelihara kerukunan rumah tangga dan membentuk baitul islami, akan dikira sebagai jihad. Orang lelaki berjihad dengan keringat di dalam bentuk yang lebih berat (berperang, berjuang dgn cara masing-masing), tapi bagi kita yang muslimat, menghambakan diri kepada Allah dan suami sudah cukup membawa kita ke jalan syurga. Mudah,kan?
I would suggest to all of you muslimat out there, do WHATEVER you wanna do (as long as it's not contradict to Islam teachings), be firm and determined, strive hard and be contented, and you will be happy insya-Allah. If you want to be a full housewife, go on. If you want to be an astronomer, doctor, lawyer, bla bla ba, even the BOD of Telekom, please go on, because that are our choices for us to decide. Allah has granted His rahmah by allowing us to make our own decisions, biiznillah. Life is about a matter of choice. The most important thing out of this is.. for whatever decisions that we make, for whatever path that we choose, make sure that we are always heading to the right and sole direction: Allah yang Satu.